Through the lens of my eyes

*resuming from Wedding 101: The HOWS of applying for ROM outside of JPN and my application story! * *In Alphabetical order.....* KUCHING EVENT/WEDDING BANDS 1)   Akoustik Connexion:   I think they are the most demanded live band in Kuching. You see them performing quite often in all sorts of events and functions, simply because they are too good! Very professional but mind you, a bit $$ (I reckon lah). But then I'd rather pay for professionals (and I did hire them) to do the job of entertaining my guests with music then to let Uncles and Aunties sing Karaoke! LOL. Have a look yourself, info below: FB: https://www.facebook.com/akoustikconnexionmanagement Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/akoustikconnexion Website: https://akoustikconnexion.bandpage.com/ Email: akoustikconnexion@gmail.com 2)   Momentum Music The name of the lead singer is Chien Chien. Good thing about her is that she does emceeing too, both in English and Mandari...

*resuming from Wedding 101: My reviews of Mei Ling - the Makeup Artist (MUA) * Finally, JPN find time to update their website! *Clap Clap!!!* Here is the link . This, is my simplified version, which I shall call it...  THE 10 EASY STEPS TO APPLY FOR ROM OUTSIDE JPN OFFICE! An Example. Jessica and Ben are both from Kuching and they are planning for their ROM to be held in their backyard on 01-02-2015 (Sunday). So between 01-01-2015 and 09-01-2015, they'd have to head to their nearest JPN office to complete the application.  [Why that time? Refer point 3 shortly.]  1) JPN Offices in KUCHING :      a)  Ground Floor of JPN office:         Operating Hours:           Mon - Fri: 7.30am - 5.30pm (Fri off: 11.45am - 2.45pm)         Location:         Next to TM building near King Centre Roundabout     b) UTC: ...

Updated: 24/4/2015 *Resuming from Wedding 101: How to pack your 'Kapit' (Bridal Luggage)? * When it comes to make up, I’m just hopeless. And every time I do my own make up, it’s giving me a lot of stress (believe it or not? Make up also give me stress *alamak!!*). The hardest part is to do the eye makeup. No matter how nice and even I colour my lids, once I open my eyes, they’re gone!  内双就是这样 *T___T * So I know, I really need a skillful Make Up Artist (MUA) on my wedding day. And since skillful means good and good means they get booked out fast! I hired ‘Mei Ling’ at the very early stage of my wedding planning. Actually, the correct spelling of her name is Mui Lin but you’ll often find her name appearing on the internet as ‘Mei Ling’. She has over 20 years of experience with Bridal Make up, she works with Pearl Studio and she also does freelancing. Her style of makeup trends towards natural looking with lots of details on the eyes! That is exactly what I need...

*resuming from Wedding 101: Don't know what to prep for Chinese Custom Wedding? Read This! ^^ * Hello,  I'm resuming my Wedding 101 post! Cos I have goyang my kaki for 5 weeks liao, it's time to get back to Wedding posts! I was browsing through my wedding photos on my phone and I saw my 'Kapit' and i thought, okay, I'm gonna do this first before the older posts. Cool with that?  So, apparently, the word 'Kapit' is only native to Kuchingites, it means - 'Bridal luggage'! And before this, I didn't even know there are tips and traditions to follow! And I was feeling a bit stress cos I didn't set aside some budget to prepare my 'Kapit'. I remember telling myself, I must Blog about this!!  You're welcome! hehe =) When Mom brought me shopping, I thought I can get any luggage I want as long it's red in colour! Yap, I got it partially right!  Tip #1: Buy a RED luggage (or at least pinkish ) and the other part tha...

*Disclaimer:在非常困的情况下写的，可能有点语无伦次......不过， 憋着太辛苦了，还是发泄发泄一下吧！ * 人家说：女儿是爸爸前世的情人，所以爸爸都会比较疼爱女儿，这点我明白，毕竟爸爸用一辈子保护女儿，自然的会比较疼爱女儿啊！ 可是，没人告诉我，当女儿要出嫁时，爸爸会变的特别焦虑，老爸怎么会变成这样呢？ 真搞不懂，芝麻绿豆的小事，怎么会让你动肝火了叻？！ 唉，经过几次的教训，我知道到跟你理论没用的啦，你在气头上 我说怎么你也听不进，倒不如直接求饶，说句‘奴婢该死’算了吧！ Ehh, 不对 ho, 该说儿臣知罪，请皇阿玛降罪！ 好无辜哦！有时就这样莫名其妙的中招 T__T 。 唉，没办法啦，上一代的人就是不善于表达。明明是出自爱，可是就是以不对的方式来呈现对女儿的爱。 * 苦 * 学长哥哥，你在哪里？妹妹需要你唱 南～摩～阿～弥～陀～佛～让我冷静冷静啊 T___T 我的老爸呀， 怎么你会这么紧张呢？ T____T 老爸，你要出嫁了 hor?????? 快呀老公，快点娶我吧!!!!!! 不说了，我困了，睡觉去呗！ 掰！

还有5个星期，就要正式成为‘谢太太’了。虽然我们已在3月份注册，可是我还住在娘家，所以生活上跟之前没有什么两样！ 但是，5个星期后，我的生活就不一样了。 这种心情好复杂！我知道过了那个门,敬了那杯茶后，我就正式成为谢家的媳妇了。老公是我爱的人，我认定他了；可是，不知道心里怎么觉得有点小害怕呢？这种感觉很让我困扰，我怎么会这样呢？我想不明白，就在我还在摸索的时候，今天发生这么一段故事...... 星期一是我教课的一天，而今天有位member在BJ课后跟我闲聊，本来也没什么，后来知道我快要结婚了就‘好心’给我提点提点。 经典一：  她说 ‘ 不要给老公太多自由，自由多了，人就变了，影子也看不见了！’ -____- 明白她的意思吗？给老公太多自由，人就变了样，跟以往不一样了，要见他也难。 经典二： 她说‘刚开始男人都贪图新鲜感，久了就腻了，甚至会把妳忘在一边’ （=____= 无言......对个快结婚的人说这个好吗？） 她接着说: ‘女人一生，为老公，为家里，为孩子，什么时候有考虑到为自己，所以做什么都好，要做自己喜欢的东西。’ 嗯，这个部分我认同，做什么都应该做自己喜欢的，那才有意思呀！ 后来，她得知我另一半后，加了这么一句 经典三： '老实说，像你老公这样能干，长得又不错的，你要 看紧～～一点!!! 他们是很抢手的，就算他不去外面鬼混，女生也会送上门!! 告诉你，我看过一个报道，它说，那些送上门的女人，男人是不会抗拒的！’ T____T 天啊，就没有一句好的吗？ 我随口问了一句，那应该怎么办？ 就短短几个字，她告诉我她的秘诀， 经典四: ‘掌控他的金钱!!! 他就会乖乖听妳的了！’ @___@ 啊？！不会吧！要做到这样？岂不变成他的奶娘兼银行了？ Errmmm... 谢谢妳那么坦诚的分享...... 不过我想说的是...... 第一 ，我嫁的是他的心，他的人。婚姻如果要做到妳说的那样，太累了。 婚姻的基础不就是爱吗？爱一个人就应该让他做他喜欢的事 ，因为没有人喜欢失去自由， 没有人喜欢像遥控器一样被控制着。我们是人，是两个相爱的个体，当你爱他的时候，你只会想着要怎么让他开心，或者你还...