He says, she says: Things that put girls off on the First Date!
Last time we were talking about 'How long would the feeling of in love last?'
This time round, it's about dating!*
First date! We've all been through that! *smile*
The night before you were picking clothes, choosing your best cologne, and rehearsing the things to say when you meet, then you went to bed early and find yourself turning around sleeplessly, worrying about things that could go wrong on your first date....like..... the restaurant is closed! WTF!! (HAHAHA!!)
Don't worry guys, Ming is here to the rescue! LOL!
GUYS: 6 THINGS THAT PUT GIRLS OFF ON THE FIRST DATE!
GUYS: 6 THINGS THAT PUT GIRLS OFF ON THE FIRST DATE!
1) DON'T BE LATE ON YOUR FIRST DATE!
NOT ACCEPTABLE!
Unless you work as doctor!
Unless you work as doctor!
It makes us feel like we are not important! The longer we wait, the more disrespectful we feel.
Advice: Offer to pick her up and make sure you're on time. If for whatever reason, you're late, inform earlier. Apologize sincerely and explain when you meet.
2) DON'T TRY TOO HARD TO IMPRESS
I have this highschool friend of mine that turn every single girl off in my year.All he talks about were what branded stuff he got, how much money he gets to spend, which business class he recently flew in.
It's such a BIGGG PUT OFF that I wonder if he gets any gf till date!
GUYS!! DON'T DO THAT!!
Let me repeat, DON'T DO THAT!
Even though all you're trying to say is 'I'm financially stable', women don't understand your language and would translate it differently.....
...... SHOW OFF!@$#%!
Remember?! Women are animals FULL of feelings! FEELINGS~~! That is what we respond to, not-the-dollar-sign!
Advice: First date is for both to get to know each other, so talk about you two e.g what you enjoy doing, what she likes, ask her questions and let the ball rolled from there.
Stay real and treat her like how you would to a friend (except that she has a bit more attention than the rest of your friends LOL).
3) DON'T BE YOUR MOMMY'S LITTLE BOY
Girl: I heard that you like traveling!
Guy: Oh ya，I enjoy it! Do you like traveling?
Girl:Yes! *smile* In fact, I'm heading to China soon! Have you been there?
Guy: No~! My mother said it's not safe to travel there. My mother said they are very cunning. They sweat-talk you to buy things and overcharge you. My mother said better not go there later 被人家卖掉都不知道！Are you going there alone?
Girl: *shock* I am going there with another female friend!
Guy: ahh, 2 girls, not safe also.
Girl: ......Would you want to join us?
Guy: ahh, 2 girls, not safe also.
Girl: ......Would you want to join us?
Guy: Okay! Let me ask my mother first!
Real life story.
I nicknamed the guy 他妈妈的儿子.
Advice: There is a line between being a filial son and an indecisive man.
Women lost interest in men that can't make up their mind.
4) DON'T HANG ONTO YOUR PHONE!
What could possibly be more important than the HOT woman in front of you on your first date?
Yup, that's what we're thinking if you are sticking onto your phone too much! (and I purposely added HOT, cause 100% of women dressed up on their first date)
And you are looking at the phone instead of talking to us?
That is such an insult!
*Cupid missed the shot*
Advice: If you're serious about dating her, put your phone aside and start talking to her.
I nicknamed the guy 他妈妈的儿子.
Advice: There is a line between being a filial son and an indecisive man.
Women lost interest in men that can't make up their mind.
4) DON'T HANG ONTO YOUR PHONE!
What could possibly be more important than the HOT woman in front of you on your first date?
Yup, that's what we're thinking if you are sticking onto your phone too much! (and I purposely added HOT, cause 100% of women dressed up on their first date)
And you are looking at the phone instead of talking to us?
That is such an insult!
*Cupid missed the shot*
Advice: If you're serious about dating her, put your phone aside and start talking to her.
5) DON'T SPLIT BILL
Guy: Waiter, bill pls!
*turn on calculator on phone*
Guy: So your tenderloin and apple juice comes to Rm70.10. And my Salmon and water is Rm 35.
Guy: Do you have 10 cent? Yours is Rm 70.10.
WTF! No girls can put up with any 斤斤计较 (calculative) guys!
Advice: Treat the girl dinner! No further explanation needed.
6) DON'T FORGET TO WAIT FOR HER TO GO INSIDE THE HOUSE BEFORE YOU LEAVE!!
I super hate guys who do this!
Advice: This is a BIG NO-NO!
Why rush?
Girls like it when you are gentleman enough to wait for her to get into her house, safely! We feel loved when we are being taken care of.
If you leave too fast, too soon. We'll take it as you don't care! And therefore, you're stuck forever in Hi-Bye friend zone.
If she drives, walk her to her car!
As simple as that!
So, how's my tips guys? With all the No-No's listed here, I think your next first date will be smoother!
Let me know how things turn up!
Good luck! =)
Why rush?
Girls like it when you are gentleman enough to wait for her to get into her house, safely! We feel loved when we are being taken care of.
If you leave too fast, too soon. We'll take it as you don't care! And therefore, you're stuck forever in Hi-Bye friend zone.
If she drives, walk her to her car!
As simple as that!
So, how's my tips guys? With all the No-No's listed here, I think your next first date will be smoother!
Let me know how things turn up!
Good luck! =)
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