Sandwiched


When life gives you lemon, you made lemonade out of it.

When life gives you a hard time, you gotta dance through it.

When life gives you a tough person to deal with, it’s another lesson Life wants you to learn!


 Hi folks,
I know I owe you my weekend travel post, it’s half written and I actually plan to finish it tonight. But I am just human; I needed to vent my emotions to regain myself!

I had an argument with my superior! Almost burst into tears and fight back with spiteful words but the rational side of me suppressed it. 

I know when anger strikes, words are like knives. Every single words forming on that lips just stab through the heart, making it…..

Painful…...

Hurtful.……

Resentful……

To moan over the silly things that slipped through my mouth has happened too many times in my life! And I learnt one important lesson: To think before I speak! And I shall never lose my temper!

I sat there waiting for him to finish his words! The look on my face probably gave it away, I feel upset and aggrieved. Is that what I get after pouring in so much effort? The thought to give up sparks but I remember this from JJ:


(Thank you JJ)

Instantly, I had an awareness: DON'T TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY! 

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Like water off a duck's back! I did the right thing.

Ming is more mature now! That is for sure!

Last time I would sob and play victim. (For a deeper thought: We play victim just to make us feel better.)

But Why am I crying when it’s not even my fault? Why would I ALLOW others to hurt me, when I am capable of shielding myself? Why am I letting others making me feel shitty when I am in charge of my own emotions? We are our own boss! No one can make you feel bad unless we ALLOW it!

As I reminded myself of what just went through my head, I stayed calm.

My biggest challenge now is to put things together when one side is drained and the other side is mad. I don't know how??

I am like the fillings between the bread, sandwiched between 2 person. 
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How am I gonna resolve this? I have yet found a solution But I know I have to take it positively to make things better.


They are the lessons for me to learn!


Dear universe, do grow me some wit, I needed it!

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